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Feb 2024
40m 44s

7 Signs You Have an Avoidant Attachment ...

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski
About this episode

Have you ever found yourself perpetually in relationships that feel "close, but not quite"?

Do you yearn for a meaningful connection yet struggle to make it past the initial stages of getting close to someone?

Perhaps you've been hurt before, and now, the walls you've built to protect yourself seem insurmountable. If these scenarios resonate with you, you may be experiencing avoidant attachment, a subtle yet powerful force that shapes how we interact in our romantic lives.

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