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Feb 2024

18m 46s

Episode 75: 1 Year Divorce-iversary and ...

About this episode

One year ago I got my divorce papers in the mail.

At the time it was a monumentous occasion! I celebrated big time!

Now, one year later, it's a distant memory.

I'm in a completely different place and the struggle, heartbreak, grief and fear are a thing of the past.

In this episode, I'm sharing four big lessons I learned about going through a big life transition, and why they're critical for you as you face life's challenges.

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