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Nov 10
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The 'Holy Sh*t' Moment: When You Start T...

Valerie Jones
About this episode

This is a personal episode for me, one that I feel led to share with you, because I know it's going to resonate. 

There's a moment in every woman's life when she look at what she's been worshipping - success, motherhood, marriage, being 'nice' - and realizes none of it was built for her freedom. That's the holy sh*t moment. The one where you finally stop trying to earn gold stars for suffering and start knocking over every sacred cow that's been keeping you in a cage. 

This is aboout burning down the old rules, setting yourself free from everyone else's opinion of you, reclaiming your wild self, and realizing that sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do...is commit a little heresy. 

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