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Dec 2021
56m 48s

Stop Losing Yourself in Relationships wi...

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About this episode

Let’s talk about love, my friend. And while we’re at it, let’s revolutionize the way we look at marriage, divorce and parenthood! In today’s Big Talk with Dr. Shefali, you’ll learn a radical new way to look at these institutions. Dr. Shefali is here to bust through the myths that we’ve bought into as a society and help us tap back into our own inner truths.

 

On today’s podcast, you’ll learn: 

 

  • How to break free of the patterns you’ve unconsciously adopted to live a freer, more authentic life 

  • How to bring the ego’s patterns to the light, so that you can interrupt them  

  • How to remove the blocks to the love within you (when you do this, you will hear the voice of your true self!) 

  • Why divorce is not a betrayal, but an opportunity to evolve into your most authentic self

  • How to free yourself from heartbreak by shifting your expectations 

  • How to find deep, abundant love in your life (hint: This has nothing to do with whether you’re single or in a relationship!) 

 

Buckle up …. you’re going to come out of today’s Dear Gabby with your eyes open wide! 

 

RESOURCES

The following are helpful resources and books I mention within the episode: 

 

Want even more support? I created the Miracle Membership to help you design a spiritual practice you can stick to—so you can feel connected, supported, and inspired every day. Each month I deliver brand new workshops, guided meditations, live group meditations, community connection, and so much more. Plus, it’s easy to access on your phone, computer or tablet. https://gabbybernstein.com/miraclemembership/

 

Dr. Shefali Tsabary is a clinical psychologist, a leader in mindful living, and an expert in parenting and family dynamics . She’s written four books, including the New York Times bestsellers The Conscious Parent and The Awakened Family. Her latest book, A Radical Awakening, teaches women how to transcend societal expectations and live free, authentic lives. 

 

I’ve opened up registration to the 2022 21-Day Manifesting Challenge! The Manifesting Challenge is my plan that will help you effortlessly manifest and become a magnet for your desires in just 21 days. Secure your spot for the 2022 Manifesting Challenge: gabbybernstein.com/manifestingchallenge

 

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