In this episode, I talk about how someone else’s behaviour is not tied to your worth or value even if it might seem that way sometimes.
Oct 2024
Don't care more about others than yourself
<p>This really spontaneously recorded episode of young, confused and well-read is all about comparison, inner confidence and learning to find peace within yourself so your personal struggle doesn't hurt others. Sometimes I have a lot of thoughts in my head and today, I felt like ... Show More
26m 51s
May 2025
STOP EXPECTING YOU FROM OTHERS
You don't understand the behavior because you would never do it. In today's episode, I dive into the emotional toll of trying to understand people who treat us in ways we'd never treat them. I unpack the frustration and confusion that comes from expecting loyalty, honesty, and em ... Show More
17m 41s
May 2024
598 - Don't let their "self awareness" fool you
<p>In this episode, I talk about "self-awareness" in friends and partners. I talk about why it's an essential quality that makes room for the qualities you want to receive (kindness, empathy, loyalty). I also talk about how some people "weaponize" self-awareness to avoid changing ... Show More
16m 28s
Nov 2020
159. You Are Not the Reference Point
How often do you look at someone else’s behavior and think, “If I were them, I’d do that differently”? This may seem like an innocent habit, but it can wreak havoc on your relationships and stagnate your growth. In today’s episode, learn how to let go of your judgments and genera ... Show More
21m 43s