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Oct 2023
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536 - Don't blame yourself for their beh...

CASE KENNY
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In this episode, I talk about NOT making someone's poor behavior about you. I talk about how to view it objectively and to realize that their poor behaviors doesn't mean there's something wrong with you, it means there's something wrong with them. Want more? My book "That's Bold of You" is available on Amazon. Instagram: @case.kenny 
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