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Oct 2023
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536 - Don't blame yourself for their beh...

CASE KENNY
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In this episode, I talk about NOT making someone's poor behavior about you. I talk about how to view it objectively and to realize that their poor behaviors doesn't mean there's something wrong with you, it means there's something wrong with them.

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