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Dec 2023
8m 30s

How to build lasting Self-Confidence

SEBASTIAAN VAN DER SCHRIER
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In this episode... We analyses the "Act as if" concept from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). Can pretending to be confident and likable really help you overcome social anxiety? We share the theory and our thoughts on its practicality. Seb discusses his personal journey of stepping out of the comfort zone and highlights the challenges and rewards of taking action as if you're already confident. But does this approach lead to lasting self-confidence? Seb also introduces an alternative strategy - Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), which focuses on addressing the emotional roots of social anxiety. Tune in to learn how tapping helps you build the lasting self confidence we all desire to have! LAST CALL: Join our free 30 Day Social Confidence Challenge, starting 1st January 2024! Try it, even only for the first week, and you’ll feel the change. Register now at https://bit.ly/socialconfidencechallenge

-- Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

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