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Nov 2023
28m 59s

J. Paul Nadeau’s PIER Negotiation Framew...

MARK RAFFAN
About this episode

Paul Nadeau is a former hostage negotiator, international peacekeeper, and interrogator. During this time, he learned a lot about how the human mind works. He’s taken his decades of experience and applied it to a negotiation framework that every negotiator can learn to implement in their work and lives. 

Outline of This Episode
  • [1:56] Learn more about J. Paul Nadeau
  • [3:19] Why won’t people just ask?
  • [6:32] Dissecting the inner conflict that exists
  • [10:05] The PIER negotiation process
  • [13:56] We don’t sell to people, we sell for people
  • [27:32] Negotiations are about connections
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