logo
episode-header-image
Aug 2020
21m 59s

Let’s not be assholes to each other

Erika Cramer
About this episode
tail spinning
Up next
Yesterday
How to Create a Life You’re Actually Excited to Live
I am so fucking excited about my life right now. And I don’t say that because everything is perfect. I say it because I know what it feels like to experience loss, grief, trauma and moments where you genuinely don’t know how you’re going to find your way through. Those experience ... Show More
19m 51s
Aug 17
Why Women Get Overlooked at Work (And How to Change It)
You can be brilliant, hardworking and incredibly capable, and still find yourself being overlooked. But what if the problem isn't only what's happening around you? After speaking at a women in tech event, I left thinking about how many incredible women are frustrated that they're ... Show More
16m 21s
Aug 10
How Bad Bunny Brought Puerto Ricans Together in Australia
When Bad Bunny announced his Australian tour, we thought we were just going to a concert. We had no idea it would change everything. What started as two Puerto Rican women trying to find their people became a growing community of Puerto Ricans and Dominicans across Australia. Fro ... Show More
41m 26s
Recommended Episodes
Oct 2023
536 - Don't blame yourself for their behavior
<p>In this episode, I talk about NOT making someone's poor behavior about you. I talk about how to view it objectively and to realize that their poor behaviors doesn't mean there's something wrong with you, it means there's something wrong with them.</p><p>Want more? My book "Tha ... Show More
15m 36s
Jul 2023
don't take things so personally ep.35
Do you analyze people's words or actions and make it about yourself? Unfortunately, people tend to harbour a lot of feelings such as resentment towards themselves when negative actions or words are said against them. It's almost natural to feel hurt based on what someone else doe ... Show More
29m 51s
Oct 2021
333 - What people assume about you...
tail spinning
17m 7s
Jul 2024
#609: Being Different and Not Caring What People Think
If you've ever struggled with a deep desire to fit in, and yet at the same time you know that you also want to stand out, this is a podcast episode that you're going to love. As humans we're wired to be in community and to be connected with one another, and yet, we are each indiv ... Show More
29m 45s
Dec 2019
How to Not Be a Dick | E179
Let's face it: We all have moments. Moments when we feel (justifiably!) angry or frustrated with other people, and moments when we lose our cool. While everyone is in agreement that there is a time and place for healthy anger, sometimes the lines can get blurred around when you' ... Show More
1h 3m
Jul 2023
Ep. 75 - How We Handle Mean People
As much as we all try to be kind and compassion, sometimes, people are mean to us. It’s a fact of life that once we learn to accept it, we can cultivate tools to manage it. This week, Barb and Michelle talk about how they handle “mean people”, and simple reminders for when you fe ... Show More
57m 39s
May 2025
STOP EXPECTING YOU FROM OTHERS
You don't understand the behavior because you would never do it. In today's episode, I dive into the emotional toll of trying to understand people who treat us in ways we'd never treat them. I unpack the frustration and confusion that comes from expecting loyalty, honesty, and em ... Show More
17m 41s
Oct 2024
Don't care more about others than yourself
<p>This really spontaneously recorded episode of young, confused and well-read is all about comparison, inner confidence and learning to find peace within yourself so your personal struggle doesn't hurt others. Sometimes I have a lot of thoughts in my head and today, I felt like ... Show More
26m 51s
Aug 2024
“Ya Bore Me” | Enemies
<p>Listen, we all do our very best to treat others with kindness, have empathy and resolve interpersonal issues in a caring and respectful manner. But…sometimes…as Stephanie so eloquently puts it — “people are shit”. This week, Stephanie and Melissa dive deep into the subject of ... Show More
38m 50s
Mar 2025
685 - That's none of my business!
tail spinning
14m 50s