Nov 13

What to Do When Someone Starts Pulling Away | Rewind

The moment someone starts pulling away, something strange can happen: we become even more determined to make them want us.We replay conversations, wonder what changed, and start thinking about what we could say or do to bring back the excitement they showed in the beginning.But t ... Show More

12m 37s

Nov 6

How to Get Them to Text You Without Chasing | Rewind

“If they wanted to text you, they would.”We've heard this advice so many times that it's almost become a rule of modern dating. Don't text first. Match their energy. Never give more than you're getting.And while there's wisdom in not chasing someone who isn't making an effort, fo ... Show More

23m 34s

Nov 2

The Dating Red Flag That Looks Like Romance | Rewind

Someone can plan romantic dates, take you on incredible trips, and make you feel special when you're together... and still have no intention of building a relationship with you.That's what makes this particular red flag in early dating so easy to miss.Maybe they make grand gestur ... Show More

16m 19s

Jul 2024

Relational Ambivalence: Should I Stay or Should I Go? (Part One) (Re-release)

On today's episode, Dr. Alexandra explores the complicated question that many of us have faced at some point in our lives: Should I stay in this relationship, or should I leave? If you're unsure of what the wisest path forward is, and you're hoping to proceed with compassion f ... Show More

38m 46s

Aug 2018

Should You Break Up Or Stay Together? | E136

Break up or stay together? Who hasn't wondered the same, during a seriously difficult time in their relationship? Or, entertained an even bigger question: Should you try to save a relationship? How hard should you work? Especially a relationship that has been feeling really hard ... Show More

1h 26m

Feb 2021

281 Should You Leave? (Decision Guide Inside)

A question that I often get is "I can't decide, should I stay in my relationship or should I go?" This will help you figure out what's best. "Every time we feel pain in a relationship it tells us that something needs out attention." - Terri Cole. Learn more about ... Show More

19m 48s

Aug 2022

#19: Should I Stay or Should I Go?

In this episode, we're diving into the challenging topic of how to know whether and when to walk away from a relationship that isn't working. I offer you five guiding questions that will lead you to greater clarity, insight and awareness in making the decision of whe ... Show More

15m 33s

Aug 2024

634 Unhappy in Your Relationship? How to Know Whether to Stay or Go

Are you tired of trying to make things work with your partner, or feel they are not as invested as you are? Do you feel like you've grown apart in your relationship or feel more like roommates? Or do you wish you had black-and-white ... Show More

22m 38s

Jul 2023

Ep. 197 - When to leave a relationship

Have you ever wondered when it's time to leave vs when it's time to keep working on yourself while staying? Today, we delve into the complex question of when it's time to leave a relationship versus when to keep working on yourself while staying. It's a dilemma that ... Show More

20m 50s

Mar 2020

Ep. 23 - Should I stay or should I go

Should I leave the relationship or should I stay? Many individuals come to me confused, doubtful, and full of fear trying to make a decision because they think they'll feel better either with or without this other human. What if I told you, you could make this decis ... Show More

15m 46s

Jul 2023

How to Know When a Relationship Is Over (2 Key Lessons)

Love is a beautiful and powerful emotion that can sometimes cloud our judgment. We've all been there, holding onto hope that a struggling relationship will miraculously improve. But what if we told you there are two key relationship lessons that can help you determine if ... Show More

21m 39s

Feb 2022

When To Break Up With Them

Are you holding on to the hope of them being better in the future? Do you love them or do you love their potential? Knowing when to break up with someone is hard. Most of us stay in a relationship far longer than we should. But how will you know when to break up with them? Happy ... Show More

46m 48s

Feb 2024

#57 - "Do I Stay, or Do I Go?"

“Do I stay or go?” “How do I know if a relationship is worth saving?” These are not-so-simple questions to answer, and can cause a lot of discomfort because of the uncertainty they drum up.    <span style="font-wei ... Show More

37m 55s

If You Love Them, But They Won't Change....