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Sep 2023
13m 23s

If You Love Them, But They Won't Change....

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

Should I leave or try to fix this relationship? Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another. Why? Because few things in life involve more gut-wrenching second-guessing than deciding when to quit a relationship. With heightened emotions and conflicting intuitions, it’s no wonder this situation gives our hearts and minds disorienting whiplash . . . all while wasting our most precious resource: time. Today’s clip could end up saving you months or even years of pain by providing you with the questions you should be asking when making this big decision.


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