The moment someone starts pulling away, something strange can happen: we become even more determined to make them want us.
We replay conversations, wonder what changed, and start thinking about what we could say or do to bring back the excitement they showed in the beginning.
But there's a question we rarely stop to ask: Why are we fighting so hard for someone who's becoming less certain about us?
In this episode, I explain why we can become so attached to someone who's losing interest, how a scarcity mindset and low self-worth can make us overvalue a connection, and the biggest mistake people make when someone suddenly goes cold.
I also share a simple exercise to help you recognize the difference between being attracted to someone and knowing they'd actually make a great partner.
If you've been trying to win back someone's attention, this episode will help you look at the situation differently. Their uncertainty about you might be the very reason you need to start questioning whether they're right for you.
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