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Aug 2024
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634 Unhappy in Your Relationship? How to...

TERRI COLE
About this episode

Are you tired of trying to make things work with your partner, or feel they are not as invested as you are?

Do you feel like you've grown apart in your relationship or feel more like roommates?

Or do you wish you had black-and-white signs telling you to stay or go?

If you feel torn over whether it's time to end your relationship, this episode is for you. 

I'm giving you questions to determine if it's time to leave as well as ways to break through confusion to get to the truth of how you feel and what comes next.

Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/634

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