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Aug 2023
30m 47s

S07|03 - God, Me and Parenting

Crystal the Parenting Coach
About this episode

My past relationship with God was full of subconscious beliefs that actually kept me separated from Him, His goodness and His light. Shame, fear and control crept into my parenting, without me even knowing it (and definitely without me wanting it). I was stuck in the same patterns of generational parenting that had been passed down to me- and had no idea how much of a difference changing my relationship with God would heal this. Healed, loved, aligned and full of light (aka a more regulated nervous system, time for rest and stillness, and listening to my own desires and ideas more)- my life and my parenting is completely different. 

In this episode you’ll hear: 

  • How my childhood changed my views of God and I didn’t even notice
  • Spreading shame, fear and control in subconscious ways through how we relate to God
  • What my relationship with God used to look and sound like, and what it looks like now
  • Research studies done on how we learn about God, and how it affects us
  • Changing our relationship with our kids through subconscious work
  • Emotionally healing IS God-work

Article from this episode: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4580497/

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Coaching has changed my own life, and the lives of my clients. More connection, more healing, more harmony, and peace in our most important relationships. It increases confidence in any parenting challenges and helps you be the guide to teach your children the family values that are important to you- in clear ways. If you feel called to integrate this work in a deeper way and become a parenting expert, that’s what I’m here for. 

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