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Aug 2023
19m 54s

214. You're Not "Repeating Old Patterns"...

Beatrice Kamau
About this episode

So many people see themselves repeating a pattern they’ve already observed, and they believe it means that there is something they are doing “wrong.”

I don’t believe that’s true.

I’ve experienced myself repeating patterns after I’ve become aware of them, but I’ve never made myself wrong for it.

Instead, I got CURIOUS. I got EXCITED. Because I believe that awareness means I’m simply seeing myself more clearly, and I believe it for you, too.

If you’re sinking into shame over repeating old patterns, this is the episode for you.

 

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