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Dec 2022
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106: Sex Therapist & Hubby: Nerves, Inti...

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Vanessa & Xander everyone!!! This duo of therapist and hubby are our fav social media sex-tips couple! They give us perspectives on what intimacy struggles we ALL have. WE ARE NORMAL. How common are nerves in the bedroom? Intimacy lacking because of confidence or distance or lack of interest? Do people actually like… butt stuff? 

THEY COVER IT ALL. We get their take on candid listener questions & why routine might be your friend…. They don’t skip past the WHY behind these candid sex convos & how it can be HARD just to have them with their partner. Communication is your FRIEND. We loved hosting Vanessa & Xander - we know you will too! 

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