Vanessa & Xander everyone!!! This duo of therapist and hubby are our fav social media sex-tips couple! They give us perspectives on what intimacy struggles we ALL have. WE ARE NORMAL. How common are nerves in the bedroom? Intimacy lacking because of confidence or distance or lack of interest? Do people actually like… butt stuff?
THEY COVER IT ALL. We get th ... Show More
Jun 2025
Let’s Talk About Sex! Shame-Free Tools for Better Intimacy and Communication with Sex Therapist Vanessa Marin
Sex therapist Vanessa Marin is here to take the intimidation out of intimacy. With 20 years of experience as a licensed psychotherapist and millions of views online, Vanessa and her husband, Xander, have become a go-to couple for real, shame-free conversations about sex. In this ... Show More
50m 37s
Apr 2023
#68: How to Talk About Sex with Vanessa & Xander Marin
<p>In today's episode, I'm joined by Vanessa & Xander Marin. <b> </b>She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience, he’s a regular dude, and they recently co-authored their first book<a href='http://www.sextalksbook.com'> <em>Sex Talks: The Five Conversations Th ... Show More
50m 31s
Feb 2023
Episode 171: How to Initiate Sex
<p>A lot of people struggle with sexual initiation. In fact, this is one of the most common topics that readers and listeners ask me about! So why is sexual initiation so hard, and what can we do to make it easier? Let’s talk about it!</p>
<p>For today’s show, I am joined o ... Show More
28m 25s
Jul 2025
Sex Therapy Part 1: Where Do Couples Get Stuck?
In this episode of Relationship Advice, Cayla and Lauren are joined by sex therapist Bryttney Huseas to explore where couples commonly get stuck when it comes to sex. They dive deep into how differing arousal types—spontaneous vs. responsive—create misunderstandings, pressure, an ... Show More
47m 1s
Sep 2025
Two Therapists in Bed Talk: Can Men Say No to Casual Sex? (And Other Big Questions We Avoid)
From sex myths to second chances, safe choices to stuck seasons - John and Vanessa answer real listener questions from bed. You’ll hear why gendered scripts about sex don’t serve us, what really matters before getting back with an ex, how to choose the “risky” path without regret ... Show More
26m 34s
Sep 2025
484: The Real Reasons Successful Women Struggle with Intimacy with Sex Therapists Vanessa & Xander
For so many high-achieving women, intimacy becomes the one area of life that feels stuck, overwhelming, or even like another thing on the to-do list. In this episode, we’re diving into why with licensed sex therapist Vanessa Marin (featured in The New York Times, Oprah, and more) ... Show More
1h 8m
Jun 2020
255: Common Sexual Challenges And How To Overcome Them
Having sex is not as straight forward as it may seem, especially in long term relationships. Our personal sexual history, combined with another individual's personal sexual history, can make things quite complicated! Listen to today's show to learn how to navigate the sexual chal ... Show More
44m 50s
Oct 2025
Building Healthy Sexual Relationships
Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Restoration Beyond the Couch, Dr. Lee Long sits down with Nancy Houston, a seasoned sex therapist, to talk openly about sex, intimacy, and the struggles that can often go unspoken. Together, they explore how intimacy impacts emotional health, th ... Show More
1h 7m