So much sex advice can be boiled down to just one thing: communication. But how exactly should you communicate about sex? And what are the things you need to communicate about? In this episode, we’re going to discuss the five “sex talks” that partners in every relationship should have. We’ll explore how to get started, tips for navigating e ... Show More
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Episode 526: Why More Adults Are Remaining Virgins
More young adults are delaying their sexual debut, with growing numbers reaching their twenties or even thirties without ever having had sex. At the same time, virginity has become increasingly stigmatized, leaving many people feeling ashamed, isolated, or like they’re falling be ... Show More
31m 29s
Aug 7
Episode 525: The ADHD Guide To Better Sex (Essential Listen)
Despite how much we hear about ADHD, its impact on our intimate lives is often overlooked. Research suggests that around 40% of adults with ADHD experience at least one form of sexual dysfunction. ADHD can also contribute to frustration, misunderstanding, and conflict in relation ... Show More
45m 11s
Aug 4
Episode 524: Essential Sex Advice For Women
Traditional sex education often skips topics like the clitoris, orgasm, sexual pain, and vaginal health, leaving many women to figure these things out all on their own. In this episode, we cover the sex advice every woman should know. We’ll discuss how to make sex more pleasurabl ... Show More
32m 23s
Mar 2025
Your Guide to Better Sex, Intimacy, & Love From a World-Leading Sex Therapist
<p>In this episode, you are going to learn how to have amazing sex, deeper intimacy, and create real, lasting love. </p><p>If you feel like intimacy with your partner is rare, your desire is low, or that your marriage is even sexless, this conversation is for you. </p><p>Here to ... Show More
1h 20m
Apr 2023
#68: How to Talk About Sex with Vanessa & Xander Marin
<p>In today's episode, I'm joined by Vanessa & Xander Marin. <b> </b>She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience, he’s a regular dude, and they recently co-authored their first book<a href='http://www.sextalksbook.com'> <em>Sex Talks: The Five Conversations Th ... Show More
50m 31s
Oct 2021
Your Top 5 Sex Questions, Answered
When it comes to your most pressing sex issues, have you ever wondered: “ugh, is it just me?” I promise: it’s not just you! To prove it, I’m tackling your top five sex questions in this episode. From raising your libido to acing your oral, we cover a lot of ground in this one. Ho ... Show More
49m 13s
May 2025
EP437 - Tell Me What You Want: Tips for Talking About Sex
Welcome to Episode 437 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Brittany Steffen, LMFT, who speaks to me about how couples can navigate and deepen their sexual communication.
In this episode, Brittany and I discuss the kinds of conversations couples should ... Show More
43m 47s
Jun 2025
Let’s Talk About Sex! Shame-Free Tools for Better Intimacy and Communication with Sex Therapist Vanessa Marin
Sex therapist Vanessa Marin is here to take the intimidation out of intimacy. With 20 years of experience as a licensed psychotherapist and millions of views online, Vanessa and her husband, Xander, have become a go-to couple for real, shame-free conversations about sex. In this ... Show More
50m 37s