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Oct 2021
1h 25m

HOW TO NOT DIE ALONE - With Logan Ury

BRITTANY HOCKLEY AND LAURA BYRNE
About this episode

Hellllllloooooo Lifers!

Today we are joined by the wonderful behavioural scientist and author Logan Ury!

She's a dating guru and dating coach at Hinge and she's written a book titled "How to not die alone." 

We think it's mostly there in the title!

In today's episode we unpack some of the most common problems that people experience in dating, including their dating blind spots. We unpack the 3 dating tendencies and how we can use the info of which one we fall into to better curate our dating lives and relationships.

PLUS something that we've been asked hundreds of times "what should I put on my dating app bio" is answered in dot point format so that y'all can go out and live your best right swiped/liked lives!

To kick things off in this episode, we speak about the Facebook Files and the daming information that the Wall St Journal has uncovered!

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