If dating were easy, this podcast probably wouldn't exist. This episode is packed with reminders and mindset shifts to help you stay positive on your dating journey, even when you keep striking out. I discuss believing vs. hoping, checking our own expectations, and examining the reality of what's actually happening in your dating life, despite how it feels.
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Yesterday
183. What to Wear on Dates: Confidence-Boosting Style Tips w/ Cassandra Sethi
What you wear on a date matters, but not how you might think! In this episode, I’m joined by professional stylist Cassandra Sethi, founder of Next Level Wardrobe, to talk about how to dress with confidence and put together stylish outfits in under a minute. We get into how to cre ... Show More
58m 54s
Jul 1
182. Sparks vs Chemistry: How To Build Chemistry & Stop Chasing Instant Attraction (throwback)
In this throwback episode, I’m breaking down the difference between sparks, chemistry, and compatibility and why chasing the spark can actually hurt your dating life. We’ll talk about what the spark really is (spoiler: it’s brain chemicals), why it fades fast, and what matters mo ... Show More
25m 14s
Jun 27
5 Lessons About Dating & Money From "Materialists" (Bonus Ep!)
In this bonus episode, I'm sharing my thoughts on the new movie, "Materialists." I'm breaking down what this film says about love, money, capitalism and dating for the long term, and what it got right about today's dating culture. If you haven't seen this movie yet, beware of spo ... Show More
24m 59s
Mar 2025
a guy’s perspective on dating & long-term commitment
we're focusing on the male perspective today as our co-host james takes the stage to share his experience navigating love, relationships, dating, and the big ol' question of long term commitment. today he answers some hard hitting questions like his ideal type, why he never dated ... Show More
51m 50s
Jul 2024
(Rewind): You’re Dating Them, But They’re Not Texting Enough
What happens when someone is great on a date, but they’re terrible at communication in between? They don’t reach out, they’re unresponsive, and it makes you feel like they’re not really invested. In this clip, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey talk about how to create your own culture ... Show More
12m 41s
Apr 14
(Matt Monday): 7 Essential Mindsets for Surviving Modern Dating
If you’ve ever found yourself saying, “I’m so done with dating,” this video is for you. Dating burnout is real, and it’s easy to see the process of finding love as a chore. But what if there was a way to make dating fun again? That’s right. Going out, dating, finding a meaningfu ... Show More
18m 21s
Jul 2
303: How To Know If They Have Relationship Potential In Early Dating (Feat. Dr. Morgan Cutlip)
In this episode, Matthew sits down with Dr. Morgan Cutlip (@drmorgancutlip) to explore the real work of modern relationships. Whether you’re dating, married, or somewhere in between, this is a must-listen for anyone who wants to learn how to communicate their needs, set boundarie ... Show More
1h 14m
Oct 2024
240. Overcoming dating burnout
In our 20s it can feel like a mad rush to find the one. If you are single and dating, you know the experience of going on what seems like dozens of dates only to be disappointed and, at the end of the day, exhausted and yet you still haven't found someone. In this episode, we dis ... Show More
35m 19s
Sep 2024
262: "I Want A Serious Relationship, But They Want To 'See How Things Go'"
How do you know is someone is ready for a relationship? What if they use phrases in their dating app like "If the right person came along, I'd be open to a relationship", or "I want to see how things go"? In this episode, Matt, Audrey and Stephen discuss how certain you need to b ... Show More
28m 10s