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Who’s ready for part two of all things dating apps?! The kings and their kings are BACK to discuss even more dating app conundrums. They debate how long you should chat on a dating app before meeting up in person, who should ask the other person out, and how everyone has to figure out the right scientific formula for themselves.

This leads to a deeper discussion about whether or not to have sex on the first date. They chat about the value of waiting, the type of person you’re looking for, and ideal feelings around your decision to say yes. Plus, Justin and Jess tell some silly dating app stories that really make you consider the meaning of “dinner and a show.”

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