In this episode, I'm sharing 15 quick lessons I learned during my intense dating journey where I went out with 64 people in 10 months. I'm sharing my insight on texting in early dating, navigating when to have sex with someone for the first time, what's most important to pay attention to when getting to know someone and how to stay grounded. Part 2 comes out ... Show More
Yesterday
183. What to Wear on Dates: Confidence-Boosting Style Tips w/ Cassandra Sethi
What you wear on a date matters, but not how you might think! In this episode, I’m joined by professional stylist Cassandra Sethi, founder of Next Level Wardrobe, to talk about how to dress with confidence and put together stylish outfits in under a minute. We get into how to cre ... Show More
58m 54s
Jul 1
182. Sparks vs Chemistry: How To Build Chemistry & Stop Chasing Instant Attraction (throwback)
In this throwback episode, I’m breaking down the difference between sparks, chemistry, and compatibility and why chasing the spark can actually hurt your dating life. We’ll talk about what the spark really is (spoiler: it’s brain chemicals), why it fades fast, and what matters mo ... Show More
25m 14s
Jun 27
5 Lessons About Dating & Money From "Materialists" (Bonus Ep!)
In this bonus episode, I'm sharing my thoughts on the new movie, "Materialists." I'm breaking down what this film says about love, money, capitalism and dating for the long term, and what it got right about today's dating culture. If you haven't seen this movie yet, beware of spo ... Show More
24m 59s
Dec 2024
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need
Today, you are getting the best dating advice out there for both you and your loved ones.Mel sits down with Logan Ury – a behavior scientist, dating expert, host of Netflix’s new dating series “The Later Daters,” and Director of Relationship Science at Hinge – to get her science- ... Show More
1h 27m
Sep 2024
Why Chase Men Like They’re The Prize? - On Cheating, Being a 'Pick Me' & Dating Lessons ft. Lisa Gilmore
EP97: When it comes to dating, we’ve seen it all—and now we’re ready to spill. In this episode, Lisa and I are unpacking the wild lessons we’ve learned from our dating adventures. We’re diving into the non-negotiables we swear by, the red flags we’ll never ignore again, and why t ... Show More
47m 37s
Dec 2020
Episode 1: Dating Apps & Dating Pt. 2
On Part 2 of the first episode of I'm With All That, listen to CJ and his featured guest Nigel, Kendall, and Erik, recount stories from their past about getting caught in the act and their experiences on dating apps. Additionally, we take a dive into the article "7 Things Women W ... Show More
1h 13m
Jul 2021
What Saying I Love You Means To A Guy ft. Lev Fer
In this episode, I am virtually joined by comedian and podcast host Lev Fer. We discuss what guys think when girls shoot their shot, not caring about meeting the parents, why it took 9 months for Lev to DTR, if men getting serious is linked to their career, my texting rules, how ... Show More
1h 8m
Dec 2024
489: What Can You Learn After 500 Episodes? Chase Celebration!
On this episode, Colter, Cayla, and Lauren sit down with the long-running Relationship Advice podcast host Chase Kosterlitz as he reflects on ten years of hosting, sharing key lessons/insights about relationships and emphasizing the importance of friendships and somatic practices ... Show More
54m 5s