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Mar 2025
2h 9m

Logan Ury: The Dating Myths You Need to ...

Shane Parrish
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Most people date the wrong way. They chase the spark, mistake attraction for compatibility, and expect their partners to read their minds. Then they wonder why relationships don’t last. Logan Ury thinks about dating differently. As the Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, she’s spent years studying what actually makes relationships work. Her findings w ... Show More
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