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Mar 2025
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#219 Logan Ury: The Dating Myths You Nee...

Shane Parrish
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Most people date the wrong way. They chase the spark, mistake attraction for compatibility, and expect their partners to read their minds. Then they wonder why relationships don’t last. Logan Ury thinks about dating differently. As the Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, she’s spent years studying what actually makes relationships work. Her findings w ... Show More
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