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Apr 2023
13m 49s

(Matt Monday): Why You're ADDICTED to Em...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
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When it comes to the traits we want in a partner, “emotionally unavailable” is never on the list. So why do so many of us end up dating not just one emotionally unavailable person, but a series of them? When someone feels slightly out of reach, our instinct is often to chase them down and make them ours . . . but this is often an unwinnable bet, where we risk losing not only our hearts, but also our time.   In today’s new episode, I get to the heart of what goes on when we keep finding ourselves getting stuck on emotionally unavailable people, and how we can break the pattern and find someone who’s ready for a relationship. --- ►► Get The Text Messages That Lead Your Love Life in a New Direction. Learn More About The Momentum Texts → http://www.MomentumTexts.com

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