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May 2022
43m 32s

My Breakup was a Break Free ft/ Sorelle ...

LOVERS by shan
About this episode

How would you feel if your lover said to you, “thank you for the opportunities to improve and grow in this relationship, but sadly, I think in order to continue to evolve, I have to break up with you…”

 

You’ve probably heard this statement before, “some people are in our life for just a reason and a season.” If the reason and season length are mutual -- INCREDIBLE! But, what happens when it’s not? Let’s examine all sides of what happens when "can I spend my life with you" turns into "thank you, next!"

 

This episode is all about the harsh and beautiful realities of “relationship cocooning” (a phrase I think I may have invented). It stars Sorelle Amore who shocked the internet when she broke off her engagement, Makeba Lindsay whose marriage ended when they had different ideas of growth, and Eman who wants to put an end to men who “cocoon” through her.

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Learn more about Sorelle Amore: https://www.instagram.com/sorelleamore/

Learn about obtaining financial freedom with Sorelle: https://www.abundantia.co

 

Follow Eman: http://instagram.com/eman


Follow Makeba: http://instagram.com/ynotkeeb

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