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May 20
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#121 - Throwback Episode: “Am I ‘In Love...

Sarah Yudkin
About this episode

Bringing back an oldie but goodie episode this week! Whether you’re hearing it for the first time, or if you heard it when it first aired back in May 2023, I hope you will find some nuggets of wisdom to take away. 

 

In this episode, I address questions like:

“Did I fall out love with my partner?”

“What if I feel love toward my partner, but don’t feel IN LOVE with my partner?”

“What if we fall out of love in the future…then what?”

“If you fall out of love…can you fall back “in love”?

I explore what the differences are between being “in love” and “love” and give you new ways of thinking about love that can expand your perspective.

Excited to hear what you think of this one! DM me @youloveandyoulearn on Instagram with your thoughts :)

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