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May 2023
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#17 - “I’m not sure if I’m ‘in love’ wit...

Sarah Yudkin
About this episode

In this episode, I address questions like:

“Did I fall out love with my partner?”

“What if I feel love toward my partner, but don’t feel IN LOVE with my partner?”

“What if we fall out of love in the future…then what?”

“If you fall out of love…can you fall back “in love”?

I explore what the differences are between being “in love” and “love” and give you new ways of thinking about love that can expand your perspective.

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