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Apr 2022
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Ep 15: Can Empathy Be Bad? How to Make S...

Justin Bariso
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Empathy is a powerful quality—and a key part of emotional intelligence. But it can prove dangerous when taken too far. When does empathy turn from helpful to harmful? How do you make sure your empathy is emotionally intelligent empathy? Today’s episode answers those important questions.

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