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Mar 2024
52m 11s

#391 - How to Be 'Good with People'

DR. LISA MARIE BOBBY
About this episode

Do you wish you were "good with people?" Many of us do! But we're not often taught the one skill that will not only help you connect with others, but also make you happier and more successful in every single area of your life: emotional intelligence, the key to love, happiness, and success

Raising your emotional intelligence has all kinds of benefits, including increased: 

  • Contentment
  • Motivation
  • Adaptibility
  • Resilience
  • Empathy for others
  • Self-Awareness

And, it will make every relationship in your life stronger. Truly, emotional intelligence is the secret sauce that makes you "good with people" — and so much more. 

So, how can you increase your emotional intelligence? That's what we're talking about on today's episode!

You'll learn all about emotional intelligence: what it is, how it helps you create the life you want, and the practical strategies that help you raise your emotional intelligence, no matter where you're starting from. 

I hope you'll join me. 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — I have therapists on my team who specialize in emotional intelligence coaching specifically. Start with a free consultation today: https://www.growingself.com/schedule-free-consultation/ 

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