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Feb 2020
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016: How to Stop Comparing Yourself to O...

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In this episode you’ll learn where self-comparison stems from, why you have the tendency to compare and rate yourself to others and how to overcome it. I’ll share with you a powerful 5-step technique on how to stop comparing yourself and measuring your self-worth. I’ll also address the role of societal and childhood programming and past emotional wounds.

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