In this episode, I discuss how self-abandonment can manifest as over-empathizing with others and why it's important to avoid falling into that people-pleasing pattern.
Sep 2023
You've Seen What You Needed to See
In this episode, I talk about how what we need to see about a person or situation is usually shown to us, we just need to let ourselves accept it. If you like my thoughts and insights follow me on my socials below for more! To be clear, I am not a therapist! I am just very intere ... Show More
12m 27s
Sep 8
OVERCOMING YOUR EGO AND HOW TO BE A MORE ENJOYABLE PERSON
<div>it's me.....hi......I'm the problem....it's me 😮💨 In this episode, we're talking about why needing to be right, acting superior, taking things too personally, and being too self absorbed makes us harder to be around. I share ways to let go of these habits that push people ... Show More
29m 38s
Mar 2024
How to Speak Up, Leave the Toxic Relationship, and Actually Save Yourself | Najwa Zebian PT 2
Welcome back to part 2 of this aaaaamazing conversation with my homie Najwa Zebian, the QUEEN of healing and embracing change.
And if you thought part 1 of this convo was powerful, get ready cause we’re going even deeper into understanding WHY choosing to leave a toxic guy is SO ... Show More
57m 48s
Oct 2024
22. the art of detachment (let go or be dragged)
Welcome back to another episode of It Girl Playbook! In today's episode, we're going to talk about the powerful concept of detachment. If you're struggling with letting go of control, whether it's in your personal life, career, or relationships, this episode is tailor made for yo ... Show More
7m 34s
Feb 2025
217. Silence Your Inner Critic: How to Stop Caring What Others Think (Without Burning Professional Bridges)
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style= "font-size: 12pt; line-height: 110%; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"> Are you tired of holding back in meetings, second-guessing your decisions, or letting the fear of judgment keep you from sharing your brilliant ideas? In this value-packed e ... Show More
21m 21s
Mar 2025
How Is Trauma Dumping Affecting My Relationships?
This week, JVN sits down with existential psychotherapist and author Dr. Sara Kuburic, widely recognized as the @Millennial.Therapist in Instagram, to delve into the phenomenon of "trauma dumping." We’re exploring the nuances between sharing personal experiences and overloading o ... Show More
41m 20s
Aug 29
Fawning: Answering Your Questions With Dr. Ingrid Clayton
<p>In this conversation, host Monique Koven has invited Dr Ingrid Clayton back to answer your questions. They explore the concept of <em>fawning</em> as a relational trauma response, discussing its implications on identity, relationships, and personal growth. They delve into the ... Show More
50m 39s
Feb 2025
Why I’m Done with Self-Improvement
This episode idea started as a joke. But the more I talked about it, the more I realized I do actually want to take a break from self-improvement — a journey I’ve been on for nearly 20 years. Before you judge me, or dismiss me, hear me out. In today’s episode I’ll talk about w ... Show More
22m 14s