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Jan 2025
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Feeling invisible: Inner child healing f...

Alyssa Zander
About this episode

In this episode I guide Jo, a member from our Codependency Alchemy membership, through a session of shadow work and inner child healing to address feelings of invisibility and unworthiness within her partner’s family. Together, we explore the emotional impact of being unseen, create a safe space for Jo's inner child, and discuss practical ways to integrate this work into daily life.

This episode is for anyone who:

* Feels overlooked or excluded in family or social dynamics.

* Struggles with validating their own feelings and experiences.

* Wants practical tools for connecting with and healing their inner child.

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