TW: disordered eating behaviours and eating disorders Hello friends! We are back in your ears today for a very important chat discussing shame. In this ep we delve into what exactly shame is, how it differs from guilt, where we learn about shame, how it manifests psychologically + behaviourally + strategies to manage. We hope you enjoy! Kat + Aimee ... Show More
Nov 19
The invisible pain of estrangement
<p>Howdy psychology gang! Welcome back to a deep dive.</p><p><br/></p><p>Estrangement is one of the most painful and least understood experiences we can go through. It’s a loss without a funeral, a grief that doesn’t receive casseroles, community support, or cultural acknowledgem ... Show More
40m 17s
Apr 2025
When Therapists Miss Key Information
<p>All therapists miss essential information-- things like self-harm, abuse, and disordered eating. These can have major consequences.</p><p>In this episode, we discuss what gets missed in the therapy room, why it happens, and what we can do about it. From clients showing up drun ... Show More
49m 43s
Oct 2024
#20 - How To Release SHAME & Blockages Around Sex
In Episode 20 of Finding The One, we tackle the often-taboo topic of sex, unpacking the layers of societal and religious shame that can surround it. We dive into how feelings of guilt can restrict personal freedom and hinder genuine connection, emphasizing the journey toward self ... Show More
47m 47s
Apr 2025
Transference Focused Psychotherapy & Personality Disorders with Dr. Otto Kernberg
In this episode, Dr. Otto Kernberg, a pioneer of Transference-Focused Psychotherapy (TFP), discusses personality disorders through a psychoanalytic lens. Explore key insights into Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), identity diffusion, primitive defense mechanisms such as spli ... Show More
1h 28m
Sep 1
How to Let Go of Your Shame
Chances are, there’s something in your life you feel deeply ashamed about—something you’ve never told anyone, something you can’t even admit to yourself. In this episode, we go deep into the emotion we all experience but almost no one wants to talk about: shame. Where it comes fr ... Show More
3h 42m