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Mar 2022
23m 46s

Understanding Why you may be in Patterns...

HARRIET FREW
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Your early relationships in life will impact the way you care for yourself, the way you interact with others and also your relationship with food and your body. Patterns of over-control, conditional acceptance, emotional neglect or even abuse can all have a significant impact. In this episode, I talk about Reciprocal Roles, a tool used in Cognitive Analytic ... Show More
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