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Oct 2023
50m 47s

Breaking Free from Old Relationship Patt...

DR. LISA MARIE BOBBY
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Do you have habitual ways of showing up in your relationships that feel hard to change? We all do! Old relationship patterns are at the root of so many struggles, from dating emotionally unavailable partners, to feeling mistreated again and again. Getting clear about what your relationship patterns are is the first step in shifting them, so you can have a be ... Show More
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