Is love supposed to hurt? Is it normal to feel emotionally attached to a person who hurts you, keeps making empty promises to change, and yet you find yourself staying anyway? In today's episode, we're talking about trauma bonds and why it's not actually "love", but an attachment trauma response. Screenshot this episode with your biggest takeaways, and tag ... Show More
May 12
#186: Connect To The Divine Mother Earth, Your Real Mom!
What if your "real" mom is right underneath your feet? In this episode, I share how I believe unconditional motherly love can be accessed through Gaia/Mother Earth, not only through the mother who gave birth to you. I explain that our biological mothers can act like channels for ... Show More
22m 8s
May 4
#185: Grieving The Mother You Never Got (But Deserved)
Is it normal to still feel so triggered by your mother, even years or decades later?In this deep-dive episode, we explore the missing piece of your healing: Grief. Grief is not just what happens when someone dies. We also grieve the timelines, futures, and life we never got. And ... Show More
31m 25s
Apr 2026
You're Invited: MOTHER WOUNDS ONLINE RETREAT
On Saturday May 23, I am hosting the Mother Wound Online Retreat 🎉💜 >> Click To Get 65% Off Before The Sale Ends in 48 hours on Saturday!A powerful 1-day online experience to help you release old emotional patterns, heal the inner child, and feel lighter, happier, and free.To d ... Show More
5m 6s
Feb 2023
How to Break the Spell of Trauma Bond Relationships
<p>Can you be addicted to a person? If romantic relationships turn to obsession, especially after they're over, it's time to heal trauma bonds that "hook" you into people who are selfish, manipulative, and who "blow hot and cold." In this podcast, I respond to a letter ... Show More
41m 20s
Apr 2025
why you crave chaos in love
<p>Why does love feel most real when it hurts? When the tension, the pull, the rupture are the only things that makes you feel alive? If you’ve ever found yourself confusing emotional chaos for connection, this one’s for you.</p><br><p>In this episode, we’re diving beneath the su ... Show More
1h 4m
Oct 2025
#210: Can You Heal in a Relationship That Constantly Triggers You?
So often, we’re drawn to the work of healing our relational wounds because of challenges in our relationship. A partner’s behaviour, or the dynamic between us, shines a light on our pain points and shows us where our work might be. But this can raise a difficult question: if we’r ... Show More
19m 9s
Jul 2025
Trauma Expert Reveals WHY You Keep Attracting the Same Pain (Caroline Middelsdorf)
What if your triggers weren’t the problem... but the doorway?In this episode, we unpack the layers of trauma that shape our reality: emotional wounds, parent dynamics, trust issues, physical pain, and more. Whether you think you’ve been through trauma or not, this conversation wi ... Show More
52m 46s