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May 2023
24m 59s

EP 332: Are you the Red Flag? Tough Love...

DR. MORGAN ANDERSON
About this episode

Discover the power of radical self-acceptance and forgiveness as I challenge you to take ownership of your own relationship struggles — so what if you're the red flag?!

Are you tired of being told to just forgive and forget in order to have healthy relationships? But despite your efforts, you still feel stuck in toxic patterns and unfulfilling connections? It's time to explore a different approach. In this episode, we'll show you how self-forgiveness, compassion, and curiosity can transform your relationship behaviors and help you create secure and thriving connections. No more blame and criticism. No more victim mentality. It's time to shift towards a growth mindset and experience the fulfilling relationships you deserve.

In this episode, you will be able to:

  • Explore the importance of self-forgiveness as a key factor in building secure attachment styles for strong connections.
  • Delve into the essential contributions of compassion and curiosity in maintaining healthy relationships.
  • Discern how falling into blame and criticism can obstruct progress and perpetuate negative cycles.
  • Grasp the necessity of self-love and forgiveness in initiating behavioral shifts that improve relationships.
  • Gain insights on transitioning from victim to growth mindset for increased satisfaction and harmony in relationships.

Are you ready to practice forgiveness toward yourself and past relationships to break patterns and move forward into healthier relationships?

I am here to help you embody the healthy, secure, and emotionally available version of yourself in the Empowered. Secure. Loved. Relationship Program.

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