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Aug 2022
32m 24s

148: If You Have Ever Been Hurt In A Rel...

BRANDY GILLMORE
About this episode

Have you ever been hurt in a relationship in the past? Many people get hurt in relationships and then struggle to find meaningful love. And there could be subconscious patterns that are running very strong in your subconscious mind that are actually keeping you from manifesting the love and the connection and joy and health that you want. You just might not realize it because many times, if people have had extreme hurt or frustration, they can't clearly see these very patterns that can be unknowingly running their lives.

That said, if you have ever experienced hurt, disappointment, loss in a relationship, or frustration, I would strongly recommend listening to this episode.

There are several key insights that you could take from it to help you to up-level your happiness, your health, your relationships, your love, your joy, and your life.

Our volunteer Alaina is absolutely beautiful! You will see her incredible transformation as she releases her chronic pain. Please listen with LOVE. 

Come join us!

IMPORTANT NOTE: We understand that some may believe mind-body healing is impossible. Therefore, if you would like to see images of individuals using their minds to relieve pain, you can check out this medical journal. It includes images from some of Brandy's case studies. If you want to learn how to use your mind to heal yourself, you can check out the training on Brandy's website. Each week, Brandy publishes a volunteer episode where she coaches a volunteer to heal themselves using their own mind. In addition, Brandy shares a quick IQ episode (Insights and Questions) where she answers listener questions or delves deeper into insights on working with the mind for healing.

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Please remember that genuine change and follow through are key for self-healing results. If you struggle with negative thoughts or have a chronic health issue or chronic pain, please do not avoid seeing your doctor. Instead, your goal with self-healing should be to continue to see your doctor as recommended and blow their mind with what you are capable of with your mind and with the power of mind-body healing. Please enjoy this self-healing podcast.

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