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Oct 2021
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Are You Emotionally Unavailable? W/ Empa...

Violet Benson
About this episode
Your toxic relationsh*t may actually have a chance IF you listen to this episode. On this episode we discuss, Types of empathy and having empathy for yourself, becoming the one you've been waiting for, coping mechanisms, what your partner is really feeling but not saying when you fight, and the type of lover that you are, We dive into turning your toxic rela ... Show More
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