logo
episode-header-image
Jun 2021
49m 7s

Episode 39: The Surprising Secrets of ST...

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
About this episode

Is it really true that having a greater number of sexual partners necessarily means you have a greater risk for sexually transmitted infections (STDs)? Nope! It turns out that a lot of the things we think we know about STDs are just plain wrong, which is why this episode of the Sex and Psychology Podcast is all about the surprising secrets of STDs.

I interviewed Dr. Ina Park, an associate professor at the University of California San Francisco School of Medicine. She is also a Medical Consultant at the Division of STD Prevention at the CDC, and Medical Director of the California Prevention Training Center. She is author of the new book Strange Bedfellows: Adventures in the Science, History, and Surprising Secrets of STDs.

Some of the topics we explore in this episode include:

  • The conventional wisdom is that STDs are caused by promiscuity—but is it really the case that having more partners necessarily translates to greater risk?
  • Is everyone equally vulnerable to STDs? Do some people have more natural immunity?
  • How does STD contact tracing work, and what kinds of reactions do people tend to have when a contact tracer informs them that they might have an STD?
  • Potential contestants on The Bachelor are screened for STDs before coming on the show, and a positive result is the most common reason for disqualification; however, a lot of people receive false positives because certain tests have low accuracy rates. So is this a good idea or a bad idea?
  • Can an STD really ‘highjack’ your brain and change your sexual behavior to facilitate viral transmission?
  • How do our constantly evolving sexual practices affect STDs?
  • What’s the connection between pubic hair grooming and STDs?
  • Are online dating apps responsible for increasing rates of STDs?
  • How do you have effective conversations with a sex or dating partner about STDs?

To learn more about Ina, visit her website at inapark.net and check out her new book Strange Bedfellows!

***

Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram.

Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast!

Credits: LEGIT Audio (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
Up next
Yesterday
Episode 439: Fantasy Confessions – Why Even Happy Couples Keep Secrets
Even in the happiest relationships, people don’t always share their fantasies and desires. And sometimes that’s because people are worried about rocking the boat. For example, what if you share a fantasy your partner isn’t into and it reveals an incompatibility? In this episode, ... Show More
31m 23s
Oct 7
Episode 438: Should You Share Your Sexual Fantasies?
What happens when people decide to share their sexual fantasies? How does it usually go? In today’s show, we’re going to explore how many people have ever shared their fantasies with a partner before, the five most common reasons that people decide to open up about them, as well ... Show More
35m 48s
Oct 3
Episode 437: How To Stop Negative Cycles (Essential Listen)
Long-term partners often find themselves having the same fight over and over again. This repetitive, unproductive conflict is known as a negative cycle–and it can ultimately be very damaging to the relationship. So in today’s show, we’re going to discuss how to identify negative ... Show More
31m 49s
Recommended Episodes
Sep 2020
Ep 57 Herpes: Stop the STIgma
The harm caused by herpes simplex viruses (HSV) 1 & 2 often arises not from the pathology of the viruses themselves but rather from the stigma and shame associated with a positive diagnosis. In this episode, we attempt to lay a clear foundation for understanding not only how thes ... Show More
1h 25m
May 2020
EP178 – Recovering From Shame After Trauma with Dr. Holly Richmond
Welcome to episode 178 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Holly Richmond back to the podcast. In this episode she speaks with me about shame after sexual trauma, how survivors can regain their desire, learning to re-engage with positive sexual experience ... Show More
33m 14s
Apr 2024
ZFA TALKS: Wer kümmert sich um sexuell übertragbare Infektionen bei Frauen?
Dr. med. Angela Schuster und Pauline Meurer, Institut für Allgemeinmedizin, Charité Berlin Sexuell übertragbare Infektionen (STI) bei Frauen sind in vielen medizinischen Angebote nicht direkt mitgedacht. Die Hausarztpraxis kann ein Ort sein, an dem das Thema STI einen Raum und Pa ... Show More
29m 15s
Mar 2022
Mind-Blowing Sex | Dr. Lori Brotto
New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers. -- What role does mindfulness and meditation play when it comes to sex? It may be the key to alleviating sexual distress in your relationships, and in this episo ... Show More
1h 5m
May 2019
196: The New Science Behind Men's Sexuality
Men are horny all of the time, and all they want is sex! At least this is what popular culture tells us. Our guest today is here to tell us why that's not true, and how this common narrative is negatively impacting our relationships. Listen to today's show to learn the research b ... Show More
52m 29s
Jun 2021
Affair-Proof Your Marriage
We all get married fantasizing the happily ever after — after all, we found “the one.” But studies have shown that up to 50% of married people will have an affair, which begs the questions: Why are so many people cheating on their spouses? And how can you stay out of that statist ... Show More
29m 16s
Jun 2020
255: Common Sexual Challenges And How To Overcome Them
Having sex is not as straight forward as it may seem, especially in long term relationships. Our personal sexual history, combined with another individual's personal sexual history, can make things quite complicated! Listen to today's show to learn how to navigate the sexual chal ... Show More
44m 50s
Dec 2016
74: Let's Talk About Sex
In today’s episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How to deal with mismatched sexual desires in a relationship. (#1 reason couples struggle sexually in relationships) Reducing sexual anxiety in oneself and in a relationship. The importance of sexual knowledge ... Show More
49m 15s
May 2020
249: All About Sex Therapy
Most of us have a rough idea what traditional couples therapy looks like. However, sex therapy for couples seems to be less well known. Listen to today's show to learn more about sex therapy and how it can help your relationship. In this episode, we discuss relationship advice to ... Show More
48m 19s
Jun 2020
253: How To Have Better Sex Now!
Sex is an important part of any healthy relationship. Listen to this episode for some great new tips on how to improve your sex life, especially during these challenging times. In this episode, we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How to improve your sex life if yo ... Show More
39m 3s