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Sep 2021
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29. How to better respect and feel more ...

NATALIE KENNEDY
About this episode

While I think it's so useful to normalize dips in attraction, that's only half the puzzle in satisfying long-term relationships! True empowerment comes from knowing how to shift sluggish, disempowering dynamics into self-aware, humble, inspiring ones. Tune in to learn how to do this. This was a complete game-changer in my relationship.

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