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The Blame Game, how blaming others, especially if you are blaming your ex-partner all the time about your relationship breakdown. How this can turn you into a negative person, and when you stay in this negativity it puts you in victim mode. Playing the victim affects you on a physical and mental level. I will be giving you some ideas on how you can reframe these unhelpful and damaging thoughts and replace them for more beneficial ones so you can start your journey of recovery after your breakup.

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