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Jul 6
9m 55s

140 - How To Stop The Blame Game

Alastair Duhs
About this episode

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

The blame game is a trap that keeps people locked in negative patterns and arguments. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explains that while blaming others feels good in the moment, it ultimately damages trust and connection in relationships.

Recognising and stopping the blame game is crucial for personal growth and healthier relationships. By practicing self-awareness, empathy and better communication, you can take control of your anger and foster more positive interactions.

Key Takeaways:

  • The blame game can trap people in negative emotional patterns and arguments.
  • The first step to breaking the blame habit is self-awareness and ownership of one's actions.
  • Practicing empathy can shift the focus away from blame and foster connection.
  • Communication without blame can lead to healthier conversations and relationships.
  • Blaming others might feel empowering initially, but it ultimately leads to disconnection and hurt.
  • Real strength comes from controlling one's own responses and not blaming others.

Links referenced in this episode:

For more information (and FREE resources) of how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

For a FREE training on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com/training/.

To learn more about The Complete Anger Management System, visit angersecrets.com/course/.

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