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Sep 2024
15m 40s

Why You Blame Yourself for Everything

Therapy in a Nutshell -Emma McAdam
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Join our membership here: https://therapyinanutshell.com/member Get the How to Process Emotions course here: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/emotion-processing In this podcast, you’ll learn why you might blame yourself for everything, how this can be a trauma response from your childhood, and how to stop doing it. And we’re going to use Batman as an e ... Show More
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