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Mar 2017
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87: What Straight Couples Can Learn From...

Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich
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In today's episode we cover relationship topics that include: The importance of recognizing the gender expectations we project onto our partners. How straight couples can learn from gay men's greater openness toward sexuality. The key to arguing in a productive manner. Working to become more empathetic toward your partner. How looking at your partner a ... Show More
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