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Jul 2025
1h 14m

How To Know If They Have Relationship Po...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

In this episode, Matthew sits down with Dr. Morgan Cutlip (@drmorgancutlip) to explore the real work of modern relationships. Whether you’re dating, married, or somewhere in between, this is a must-listen for anyone who wants to learn how to communicate their needs, set boundaries, and grow closer to their partner without losing themselves in the process.


Topics Covered:

  • What actually changes when you become parents, and how to prepare for it.
  • Why resentment builds when your needs go unspoken.
  • Dr. Cutlip’s “Ultimate Compliment Formula” for deeper emotional connection.
  • How to love someone in the way they need to be loved (even if it doesn’t come naturally).
  • What the “mental load” is and why it’s a hidden relationship-killer.
  • How to talk about imbalance in a relationship without triggering defensiveness.
  • The difference between compromise and losing yourself in a relationship.
  • How to bring up your needs without guilt.
  • What makes someone “relationship ready” in dating.
  • How individualism is quietly undermining commitment culture.


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