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Dec 2024
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Episode 353: Dating And Relationship Tip...

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
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Most relationship advice is tailored to heterosexual folks. And while some of that is also applicable queer relationships, not all of it is. Queer relationships are unique and therefore need relationship advice that’s tailored to them. My guest today has a forthcoming book that offers a relationship guide for gay men, so that’s what we’re going to be talking ... Show More
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