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Oct 2022
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The Best Way To Slide Into A Guy’s DMs f...

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
About this episode

On today’s episode, I sit down with Case Kenny, mindfulness expert and host of New Mindset, Who Dis podcast. We discuss breaking our own rules, letting other people's opinions influence our relationship, how Case went from not ready for a relationship to ready, why men remember compliments, the best way to slide into a guy's DMs, Karpman's drama triangle, why we need to tell our partner what we want, how to not take rejection personally and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how I got close with my in-laws, daily habits living with a partner, the pain you feel when you end it with an amazing guy who isn't right for you, and money in relationships.

 

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