In this episode, I reflect on what I’d tell myself 10 years ago about
losing everything, rebuilding, and learning that security was never
really about what I owned.
I also share a story about a local surfer in Costa Rica who offered to
teach me after watching me struggle in the water every day. What stayed
with me wasn’t the surfing—it was the feeling o ... Show More
Sep 10
Therapy Thursdays | Are You Staying for Love or Out of Fear?
Are you staying because you want to or because you’re afraid to leave? In this Therapy Thursdays, I answer your questions about fading attraction, slow-burn love, situationships, and healing after heartbreak. We also talk about what it takes to start liking yourself again. And be ... Show More
17m 19s
Sep 9
Raising Conscious Kids with Dr. Shefali
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Shefali who is an NYT bestselling author of The Conscious Parent and The Awakened Family. She is also a clinical psychologist, an international speaker and a wisdom teacher, integrating Eastern philosophy with Western psychology. We talk about ... Show More
38m 52s
Sep 7
Is it love - or are you just obsessed?
I’m answering a few questions about love, desire, affairs, and obsession. I start with a question about losing desire for a husband after having an affair and whether that desire can actually come back. My answer is yes - but I don’t think getting the old desire back should be th ... Show More
24m 24s
Oct 2025
How to Find Yourself Again After a Breakup
After a breakup, we don’t just miss the other person — we often miss the version of ourselves we were with them. In this episode, Dora shares how relationships reflect parts of us, why it hurts when that mirror breaks, and how to reconnect with the playful, confident, free self t ... Show More
4m 46s
Jan 2023
Mashup: 4 Ways to Get Over a Breakup
Going through a breakup can be one of the most heartbreaking experiences. In this episode, uncover 4 big ideas that can help you accept, process and move on. “If you’ve gone through a breakup recently, then today is the day to ask yourself who you want to be now, separate from th ... Show More
1h 5m
Dec 2022
How to Turn a Breakup Into a Positive Experience
<p>If you're facing a breakup or have just recently gone through one, your life starts to feel like it's falling apart. But the research shows that many times, our breakups can be an incredibly positive experience. In today's podcast, Gary and Adam discuss the scie ... Show More
41m 18s
Feb 2019
3 Lessons I Learned From My Ex
Breakups are hard there’s no doubt about that, but sometimes break-ups lead to break-throughs. Don’t worry, it’s normal to have feelings of bitterness, blame, or even have a breakdown. You are not alone.We cover a lot in today’s episode so whether you’re looking to strengthen you ... Show More
31m 59s
Jul 2025
How to Turn a Breakup Into a Positive Experience
<p>If you're facing a breakup or have just recently gone through one, your life starts to feel like it's falling apart. But the research shows that many times, our breakups can be an incredibly positive experience. In today's podcast, Gary and Adam discuss the scie ... Show More
41m 18s