In this episode, we look at the quiet ways people with BPD try to protect themselves from abandonment, emotional overwhelm, and the fear of losing control — and how those same strategies often keep the fear locked in place.
You’ll hear a clear breakdown of safety behaviors, why they feel necessary in the moment, and how they prevent the brain from learning that the catastrophe is either less likely or more survivable than it feels. We also walk through imaginal exposure and response prevention as a practical way to start interrupting the cycle.
This is a straightforward, skills-focused episode for anyone who recognizes the urge to check, test, shut down, or escape when the emotion gets big.
In this episode we cover:
Fall Group – Starting September 30I’m running a small fall group beginning September 30. Space is limited on purpose so participants can actually practice these skills with support and feedback.
If you’ve been wanting structured work around emotion regulation, abandonment fear, and breaking the safety-behavior cycle, this group is designed for that.
Individual session openings are also available if you prefer one-on-one work.
Details: thriveonlinecounseling.com
Book a session with Rose or Jay: thriveonlinecounseling.com
Call/Text: 844-984-7483 (844-9-THRIVE)
Fall group forming, register today!
Podcast Website: thriveonlinecounseling.com
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