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May 11
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Ep 162. What's On Our Minds At 26?

Jeremy Tusia & Ilan Volchek
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The priorities you face in your mid to late twenties can look very different to the ones you had in your early twenties. Saving for a holiday can quickly become saving for a property. The relationship you started at 22 may now come with conversations about engagement rings and future plans. Even the boys’ or girls’ trips that once felt easy to organise now r ... Show More
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