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Jun 2025
18m 28s

How Co-Dependency Ruins Your Relationshi...

Annalisa Bahadur
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Do you find you’re in a co-dependent relationship that is affecting your relationship? Maybe you need them too much, or perhaps you don’t want to need them as much but don’t know what to do. This podcast shares how our attachment styles show up in co-dependent relationships and what you can do to manage it. I would love to hear your thoughts on this episo ... Show More
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